When we think teens dating we need to give some thought to sexual activity. Parents need to be clear about what they value and what behaviors they expect from their teen. As parent you need to communicate with your teen about sex.

Keep in contact with your teens and the issues surrounding their lives. Teens who believe that they have a good level of communication with their parents are less likely to engage in sexual activity.

Make "the talk" as comfortable as possible for your teen. Talking down to tour teen will not encourage openness in the discussion.

Answer your teen directly and honestly. Your willingness to be open and truthful will go a long way, especially when it comes to your teen dealing with the tough stuff.

Be clear about your values. The values parents teach will be the foundation from which teens will make future decisions.

Don't hesitate to let your teen know how you feel and what you expect. At the same time be willing to listen and not judge when your teen speaks.

Help your teen understand that all actions are based on choices with consequences. Talk about the results of irresponsible sexual behavior and why it is important to delay sex.

How susceptible is your teen to peer pressure? Most teens have sex based on the perception that their peers are doing the same thing. Ask you’re teen what they value and explore how they perceive the values of their peers. Discuss how these values fit into your belief system.

Be persistent. Parents have a lot of knowledge and experience. Your voice needs to be heard.